Parenting Tips: Children learn what they see their parents do or say. In their small world, parents are the biggest role models. Therefore, if parents say something wrong in front of them, it has a profound impact on their minds and thinking. Child psychologist Shweta Gandhi, in her Instagram post, outlined seven things parents should never do in front of their children. Let's explore them:

Expressing Money Stress
Psychologists say that constantly talking about financial difficulties in front of children can create fear and anxiety in them. They may feel they are the cause of your problems. In such a situation, discuss money in private, not in front of them. Teach them budgeting in a positive way.

Adult Fights
Conflicts between adults are common. However, arguing in front of a child can create fear in them. They may feel that their family will fall apart. Therefore, resolve arguments calmly or avoid them in front of children.

Negative Talk About Others
When children hear you speak ill of a relative, teacher, or neighbor, they too learn to judge others. This fosters negative thinking in them. Therefore, try to always speak respectfully in front of children, even if you disagree with them.

Comparing Success
Saying things like, "Look, he got such good marks," or "His house is bigger than ours," teaches children that a person's worth is determined by money. Instead of comparisons, teach them that true success lies in hard work and honesty.

Gossip
Laughing at or making fun of others' mistakes destroys empathy in children. Teach them that every mistake is a lesson to be learned, not laughed at.

Body Comments
"She's gotten fat" or "She looks ugly"—such comments teach children to judge themselves or others' looks. This can negatively impact their self-confidence. Instead, teach children to stay healthy and love themselves.

Negative Self-Talk
Sayings like "I can't do anything" or "I'm stupid" get ingrained in children's minds. They also begin to view themselves in the same light. Therefore, avoid such comments in front of them and teach them how to resolve every problem calmly and wisely.

Psychologists say that children not only hear your words, but also feel your thoughts. Your words penetrate their minds. Therefore, think carefully before speaking. Your words are the foundation of their self-confidence and future.

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